01 August 2020

Rock your LinkedIn profile

I received a message from LinkedIn Premium that offers me free trial on LinkedIn Premium Career. Since it's free, why not.

Once I subscribed, it pops up a video on "Rock Your LinkedIn Profile" - which I believe it wants to help me get started and since I have time, I watched the video from the beginning till the end and my opinion, I think that is a great video for LinkedIn newbies as well as people who has been on LinkedIn since forever but they want to change the status quo of their LinkedIn profile.

Since it's a great video, I think I should share some of the tips from the video for you who google, "How to get started my LinkedIn profile".


1. Tell a little bit about you in About section - share a summary of your professional and a little bit of personal journey. Do it like you tell a story about yourself. If you don't know how to start, let's start with how would you introduce yourself during introduction session.

2. Make sure to always update your latest work experience and instead of sharing what you do cos everybody can do the same things that you do, share your contribution and what you achieved instead cos that what makes you different.

3. Change your Headline from default to something that you want to be known of. You can focus on what industry you are in, what do you do/your role and what/how you do make the difference. For me, I skip the industry part and focus more what do I do and still thinking about my unique skill that makes me special in what I do.

4. Don't forget to add in your Skills, it can be as basic as having skills in Microsoft Office and you can get your colleagues to endorsed it.

5. Get recommendation from colleagues, managers, senior leaders or your customers/clients to build your credibility. Instead of using the LinkedIn template to get the recommendation, customise the recommendation request so that you can get the other person to focus on the things that you want them to highlight. For example, how your contribution in a Project A help with its success.

6. If you do volunteer work, why don't you add this information in. I find this interesting because I always thought volunteer work is private matter, but, for you who have employment gap, this is something that you can share with the Hiring Manager how do you use your time during the gaps.

7. Don't update your profile all at once because you'll feel overwhelmed and sometimes you don't know where to start. So, why don't you start with one section and then work on another section on the next day or next week.


These are some that I learn from the video, and I think you'll learn more by watching it, so here you go the link to the video.



Till then.

01 January 2018

Saying Goodbye to 2017, Welcoming 2018

Out of 7 things that I listed out as things to achieve in 2017, I only managed to achieve 3 of them. My excuse on this simply because all my wishes cost so much money and I only spend more than I earn *sigh*

I ran my best nine photos and what appear are all the good things happened to me in 2017.

Career:
I took an exam and passed it. I went to the Austin to attend my company's largest event. I presented a technical demo on stage in front of more than hundred attendees. I met new colleagues from various countries. Finally, I graduated as a sales engineer 😎

Travel:
I went to 1 new country and 2 new cities. I re-visited 1 city that I have been when I was a kid.

Family:
I can feel that last year was a year where I focus more on my career to develop myself in my new role. I left Ruhul to travel for work more than I usually do. I did make up to him by bringing him outing as much as I can. I bought Thomas cake for his birthday. I brought him to Thomas town. I took him to holiday every quarter, except in quarter 2 cos I was away to US and when we are back it was already fasting month and Hari Raya.

Relationship:
I traveled to US with husband and it was okay. We did argue on stuff like where to go and when, what to eat and whether or not it Halal-cos I'm quite particular. But I guess all that make us more patience ? to withstand each other for the next 50 years 😑

Friendship:
My girlfriends came to my office area to treat me birthday lunch and I managed to organize 1 night sleepover with them. I wish I can do the same with my other group of girlfriends-well, that's on my 2018 goal 😊


Anyway,

For 2018, I had my goals written on my planner already.
Beside what was written on my planner, I also wish that hopefully our world become a safer place to live, so that my family and I can visit each and every city in the world.

Till then, wish everyone the happiest year ahead !



13 January 2016

What Whatsapp Web

I was working at my desk when my colleague, Yasmin called me and show me her desktop telling me my son's picture looks nice. The lighting, the vibrant colors, the angle and the shot, unfortunately, my son's pose spoils it. He seems like being forced.

I explained to her that, that is the only decent picture of him that we managed to captured on the grass because he kept moving to play with the leaves. Then I continue look at my laptop screen when I realized, "eh, how come my son's picture is on your desktop?"

Hahaha, she then told me about Whatsapp Web. I heard of it before but I never really bother. Now that I knew I can use whatsapp from my laptop, I think it's easier for me to reply messages. I don't have to keep checking my phone and I hate typing on a touch screen *missing blackberry*

Since I'm on a Whatsapp web, I think people can seen me online like 24/7 during working hours. Don't get me wrong eh. You know why now.

Here is Ruhul's picture on the grass.

My dear son.


Join me and open your whatsapp on web now, tehee -> https://web.whatsapp.com/

Till then, bye.

06 January 2016

The Chains Board

The best travel souvenir for me definitely is keychain. I don't like fridge magnet because I don't have fridge. I'm okay with bookmark though. Postcard? They get seasoned overtime.

I used to hung all my keychains on my cubicle wall and one day, I removed it all because it made my wall and desk look so messy. I want to be minimalist y' know *rolls eyes*.

Personally, I love them all because each, has a sentimental value to me, like, the person who gave it to me-though, honestly some of it I forgot who gave *sigh*, the country they went to-inspires me to visit them.

I told my colleagues that I love my keychains and I want to hang them to show off, bahaha, but I hate the fact it makes my desk look messy. In 2016 I want to be organized, remember? Izati then suggested that I should hang them on a memo board.

Seriously, I bought the idea, haha. During New Year's weekend I went to the nearest Daiso which is in OU and I got myself a memo board to hang all the keychains.

And, this is how it looks,


I don't hang all my keychains and only put the nicest one due to the small size of the board. I still have some space for keychains from Japan that husband bought for me during his trip to almost all the cities in Tokyo *envy*.
The memo board is quite small (30x40 cm). I should go and see the one at Ikea if they have a bigger size.

Till then, bye.

02 January 2016

52 week money challenge

Thanks to Izyan Darlina on her post that I've decided to try this money challenge this year.

Last year, I did do money challenge by taking out every RM5 in my purse and put it in a box. It went well but after some time, I realized that I didn't take out money from my purse anymore because I didn't have any green color note in my purse. Well, people who knows me, know that I prefer do online banking on anything and if there is a need to use cash, only I will withdraw my money. I'm cashless and I'm not paranoid if I'm being pickpocket because I don't have money hahahhh.

Anyway, since this money challenge only requires me to take out money once every week, I think, this should be doable.

But, instead of starting up with RM1 in Week 1, I decided to start with RM52 in week 1. Why? Cos in January I'm still "rich" from my 13 month salary haha. And instead of keeping it in a jar, I will transfer it every Friday to my TH account :)

Remind me to share the result after 52 weeks eh ;)

BTW, get your 52 week money challenge printable here if you wish to start with RM52.

I paste mine on my cubicle wall =)

Till then.

01 January 2016

Starting 2016

I woke up at 12 am something because of the noisy fireworks, yes, that was how I celebrate my new year, hehhhh. *pathetic*

Ruhul is an early sleeper and he usually goes to bed early like 9 pm, and, I usually will just join him and we both end up sleep together.

Happy New Year from Ruhul Qudus.



The previous post about my planner and how I can't wait to use it, I really mean it y' know, cause now is only the 1st of January but my dear planner is already full with my January plan. Husband still smirks at me everytime I tried to show him my planner and its contains. Bahahaa what an annoying wife.

2015 was a blessed year, of course there were ups and downs, but still a blessed year for me. Sadly, I didn't have any 2015 resolution to ponder.

For 2016, I've listed all that I want to do and achieve in my planner. If anyone wants to know what are my goals, you have to go and steal my planner ;)

Basically, I have goals for all these items:

1) Financial Goals - Everyone predicts 2016 economic will be very bad. I'm preparing myself for the bad. Maybe I will share some tips on some financial experience I had-like education insurance for your kid?

2) Health Goals - I'm not getting any younger, so does everyone. I have to do something about my health. Of course I will start slow, like real slow, but am getting there :)

3) Career Goals - Everyone needs motivation to wake up early every weekday's mornings, I just have to come out with something.

4) Family Goals



Mostly, all my goals are related to the items above. Shocking that I don't have any personal goal. Read books? It's not a goal anymore, it's a hobby that I'll do it when Ruhul doesn't want me to play with him huhu. Travel/trip? That goes under family goals. Self-time? I don't need that yet. I'm so into Ruhul that whatever I do or whenever I go, I still want him to be around. I don't want to miss the chance seeing him grow up *tears*

Anyway, I hope I can do well in 2016 and achieve all the above so I can cross them out from my planner and irritate husband some more tehehe. I wish everyone all the best in 2016 too.

Till then.

31 December 2015

2016 Planner


One of my 2016 goal is to be as organize as possible. In order to be organized I have to have a planner to plan ahead.


I was so motivated to buy a planner that I did some research before I bought one. I even tempted to buy Duck Planner. But looking at the price, erm, it's okay, thank you, my husband won't allow.


One of the criteria I'm looking at a planner is its size. I want it to be as small as possible so that I can carry it everywhere in my handbag. A5 is too big for me, so, I decide A6 size is the best.


Next, I want it to be a weekly planner, not daily nor monthly.


With all the research I have done, on the same day, I pleaded husband to go to OU to buy me a planner. I went to TYPO and looking at all the planners available and I'd made my choice.


So, here you go...


A glitter A6 2016 planner from TYPO.



In this tiny book there are contact details page, full calendar page, reference calendar for 2015, 2016 and 2017, Public Holiday- unfortunately they don't have PH for Indonesia, I need to know when my team member is on PH though, Monthly view, weekly view, notes page and even a pocket to keep all your receipts and bills for your review before you throw it away.

I even buy a sticker for this purpose.
 
And I have a bag for everything, the planner, the stickers, the sticky notepad and the pen. Hehhe. BTW, the bag was given by Chelsia the Ops Manager from Singapore.


The planner only cost me RM38, but still, husband smirked at me when he had to queue to pay for the planner cause he can sense that I will not use the planner and it just the new-year-thingy. I'll take the challenge that my planner will be my bestfriend next year ! :')


Till then, Happy New Year :)

29 July 2015

Setelah sekian lama,

Assalammualaikum dan heyyo..


Dah hampir setahun sejak kali terakhir saya update blog.
Tiba tiba teringin nak update blog, kenapa? Sebab saya bosan sangat terlantar di hospital dan tak buat apa apa :'( Manager saya dah pesan siap siap jangan check emails, so, okaylah, saya tak buka inbox Lotus Notes tu..


By the way, I was admitted to Damansara Specialist Hospital and underwent some minor operation since yesterday. My groin lymph node has getting bigger and swollen since a month ago. I don't know the source of the infection that cause the growing lymph node so the specialist has took some tissue from the lymph node and send it to lab. So, I am praying for nothing serious hopefully :)


Post kali ni saya saja saja nak update tentang life saya lah.
Biar saya ingat apa yang pernah berlaku sejak saya bersalin sampai sekarang. Hehe..

1) My baby is now 10 month and almost a week old. He can stand on his own but with support of a wall, chair, etc,. He can also crawl with his feet not knee which I find it funny heh heh. He likes to babble which is okay cos I like to watch his face expression when he babbles but sometimes he can be so grumpy tskkkkk. Walaubagaimanapun, saya bersyukur sebab Allah kurniakan baby yang sihat kepada saya.

2) As for my career, I am still working with the same company since the past 5 years plus, but I have went through responsibilities changed few times. At the moment, I'm replacing my Manager who is on her maternity leave to attend Inside Sales Managers meeting between APAC (Asia Pacific) region to represent ASEAN and Oceania (Australia & New Zealand). This is a wonderful opportunity for me because I'm able to communicate with higher level management from other countries like Japan, China, Korea and even America beside ASEAN. Few projects are going on for my department and we are undergoing evolution. So, although I'm in the same company for the past few years, but I'm actually not doing the same job everyday, which is great, right. I thanked my company for the chances.

3) Since early this year, my brother-in-law's wife (or in Malay termed as 'biras') and I has collaborated and came out with a kids clothing label Naurakids. The first batch was a success. We managed to sell almost 90% of our first collection before Hari Raya. Now, we are looking forward to come out with our second collection. We are serious in this business. We have registered our company and setup a bank account. Fret not, my business still has not affect my career because I only doing it during my free time and my biras who is a fulltime housewife, really help me a lot with the business operations. Go and check out IG: @naurakids and FB: www.facebook.com/naurakids .

4) After years of waiting, we, husband and I, finally gotten the key to our house. We were in-doubt when we decided to buy the house. Now that we know the value of the house we feel grateful that we bought it. The location is very near to everywhere, to the highway, expressway, colleges, largest AEON in Shah Alam, TESCO, GIANT, Shah Alam stadium, well it's in Seksyen 13. Unfortunately, we are not going to live there but we are going to rent it out. That is one of our investment plan. Where do we live then? Heh heh, with the parents, still :) Looking forward to buy our second house for living.


I guess that's all for now.


Here is a picture of bonda and Ruhul. People kept confused whether Ruhul is a girl or a boy. That's because his gene is 99% from me :)


Till then.

Love Emy.

23 September 2014

Muhammad Ruhul Qudus

Bismillah,

He is the best thing ever gifted to me.





Alhamdulillah for the gift from heaven Ya Allah :)


Love, emy.

15 July 2014

Pregnancy: Baby Checklist


Assalammualaikum :)


It's a Nuzul Al-Quran day, so today, Selangor, Wilayah and few other states have declared as a Public Holiday. I plan to buy some baby items today so I have been busy doing research to compare prices, brands, etc,.


Here, I'd like to share baby checklist that I'd gotten from QQ Baby Shop:



I try to be practical and only purchase necessary items.

InsyaAllah, I'll share with mommies what I bought and what I think about it *i think i have to wait until my baby use it before i can review sigh*


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

10 July 2014

Viva Palestina


I was an ignorant, once. When there was a news about Israel attacking Palestine, I didn't bother - much.



Now, I am not the old me anymore. Though, sometimes, it slips my mind where I think we shouldn't feel sorry for the Palestina instead be happy for them, they are on jihad - free ticket to Heaven - but still, thing I have to ponder - the test is for them and for us. But what is there for us?




Easy - Allah is testing us - how are we going to help our fellow Muslim brothers and sisters? I can't go there and fight with them. *husband is so eager to join the Hamas if he can.* The least I can do is to support them, but how?




Here, you can now donates to any valid charity bodies.


One of them is Viva Palestina:







Help them by feeding them.

"Whoever feeds a fasting person will have a rewars like that of the fasting person" - Al-Tarmidhi.




What you give, you'll get back. Allah will reward you more :) InsyaAllah.




Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

03 July 2014

Pregnancy: leg cramps


It was 4 am in the morning and I was repositioning my body when suddenly I felt my under knee at the shin area was in pain. I tried to massage the area but the pain went worst. I didn't know what to do I suddenly cried. (I was crying not entirely because of the pain, but because I remembered a caller on the radio earlier this week said she wasn't able to do kueh raya last Ramadhan because she was half paralyzed - from waist to toe - after giving birth and I imagined the worst, I, too, will paralyze, nauzubillah, scary thing to imagine).


Husband was awoke by my crying and asked what happened. I told him my right leg suddenly feel so painful. But he said don't worry, I just had a leg cramped. He sat up and straighten my leg and gently bend my toes towards me. A few seconds or minutes later the pain was released.


I thanked husband for the knowledge he has on the leg cramps because I was totally clueless that my leg was cramped *sigh* and husband asked why didn't I wake him up, he was so nervous he thought I had a contraction and thought I am about to give birth *lol*.

***

I did a check up at the government clinic and I told the nurse that I had a leg cramped recently and she said it is normal for a 8 or 9 month pregnant mother but it's too early for me. She said I need more calcium. Well, I admit, I didn't drink or take calcium tablet since my doctor changed my prescription. My HB is very low so I was given a zincofer instead of the normal obimin or folic acid. I can't take zincofer together with calcium and the only time I can consume calcium is at night when usually I'd forgetten and already went to bed *tskkk.

Other reasons of leg cramps during pregnancy:

1) Fatigue of carrying pregnancy weight
2) Compression of the blood vessel in the leg


How to avoid leg cramps - do stretching or exercise.


That was the only time I had a leg cramped and I haven't yet had a swollen feets and legs ache. Maybe soon?


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

28 June 2014

Ramadhan Mubarak


 
 
30 days ago, I shared how many of us still have not yet prepare for Ramadhan (entry: my Ramadhan goal). Hopefully, by Maghrib, everyone has already have a list of what to achieve this Ramadhan :)
 
 
This entry is specially dedicated to those who knew me and if I ever hurt any one of you, I am so sorry.
 
It will be useless to strive for Allah but our heart is still darken by a grudge. I admit, I still hold grudges against people who especially hurts me, but slowly, I try to let it go. I try to always remember that no one will enter Jannah until they forgive.
 
 
Wishing everyone, Happy Ramadhan and have a blessed one ! Don't waste it with sins, cos you never know this might be your last Ramadhan.
 
 
Salaam, emy.
 
 

27 June 2014

haze o haze


It has been a week since I received my tetanus injection (entry: Pregnancy: Tetanus injection) and it has been almost a week I had my fever. I thought the injection cause the fever, apparently not really, I'm actually lacking of water. The weather is so warm and hazy lately and cause my eyes to teary, cough and flu.


I went to see a doctor and she gaves me a lot of medicines which, I'm afraid to consume. I scared it will affect my baby but the doctor says no, but who knows. I never like to eat pills, I usually let myself recover naturally.


But last night I was coughing like non-stop and husband could not sleep. He ask me to drink the cough syrup, well, it healed me that night. Alhamdulillah, I'm a bit better today.


Anyway, I hope people out there take care of your health. It's not cool to celebrate Ramadhan by being sick teheee. It's hazy so stay indoor, drink plenty of water and turn on your aircond. This message brought to you by lovely emy.


Till then, bye :)

23 June 2014

Pregnancy: 4D scan at Putra Medical Centre


Note: As much as I want to share my baby photo, I have to suppress the action until I deliver my baby. InsyaAllah, if Allah's will, I will update this post and upload the 4D scan of my baby :)


I don't really do any survey of where to do my detailed ultrasound - 4D scan - and how much does it cost. I've been doing my check up at PMC Sungai Buloh since my 6 or 7 week of pregnancy, so I just ask my obstetrician, Dr. Ratna if PMC offer the service and yes, they do.


If you are a mom-to-be and is doing a survey on 4D scan, here are some info that I thought might be useful to you :)


BEST TIME:
The best time to do 4D scan is when your baby is at 22-30 week. You are not suggested to do it earlier or later than that because it's either your baby is not well developed yet or your baby is already too big thus make it impossible to do the detailed scanning. Dr. Ratna suggest that I go when my baby is at 22 week but the sonographer who is supposed to do the scanning keep posponing my appointment, so I did my 4D scan when I was at 25 week of pregnancy.


PRICE:
I asked my friends and colleagues who are now a mother if they did 4D scan and how much does it cost, apparently the price range is between RM100-200. As for me, PMC charged me RM145 which includes consultation during the scan - you can ask whatever you want to ask about your baby, they do 2D & 4D scans so that they can explain in details of your baby development, they allow you to hear the baby's heartbeat - I know in government clinic they do this everytime you do check up right, nothing special. Also - mine comes with a CD which includes pictures and videos during the scan process.


DURATION:
I know you wish you could spend all your time with your unborn baby by looking and hearing the heartbeat through the ultrasound machine, but I'm afraid the OB (obstetrician) won't be able to entertain you *sorry* My session took around 20-30 minutes or less but it was a good 20-30 minutes spent as we had all the information we need.


SATISFACTION:
Many of my friends did not do 4D scan because they felt that they can't really see the image. Yes, I agree, if the OB did not tell me which part is which, I wouldn't know which is the eyes, nose, ears, etc. But, to be able to see the shape of my baby's nose which is sharp like my Ayah and not big like my Mama :p is fun and to know that my baby is normal and nothing should fear me is a great feeling. Alhamdulillah. Oh oh, I also got to see that my baby had a sulky mouth when he sleeps. We are not sure who he follows though cos husband always smile when he sleeps like a sleeping beauty tskkkkk while I, husband never notice how I look like when I sleep *sigh.


Hopefully all the information are sufficient for mom-to-be out there :)


Thank you Allah for this gift.
Which of your favour that I deny? None.


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

20 June 2014

Pregnancy: scaling during pregnancy


I have bleeding gums problem since before I pregnant but right after I'm pregnant, the problem has become severe. Not only I spit blood when I brush my teeth, my gums feel itchy too and swollen at few places. I mentioned about it to my doctor and she gaves me Calcium and Vitamin C tablets to be taken daily. But only consumed the pills wasn't sufficient, my gums was still bleeding, so I decided to go to dental care and get consultation from a dentist.




No kidding, but it was really scary to see a dentist, haha, I thought only kids will feel that. Husband scared of the dentist too :B Yeah, husband did scaling too, hehe,.


I asked so many questions to the dentist and he gaves me a lot of advises too, like what I should and shouldn't be eating, etc. No, it is not dangerous to do scaling during pregnancy and it is even better if you have severe gum disease. And, it is normal for pregnant lady to be infected by a gum disease. So, it is your responsibility to take extra care of it.


Alhamdulillah, so far, I don't spit blood when I brush my teeth :)


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

19 June 2014

Pregnancy: Tetanus injection


I had my first tetanus (ATT) injection on my 5th visit of pregnancy check up.


The doctor never give me heads up about the injection, like a month before the check up, so I wasn't prepared mentally and physically. And because of that, right after the injection, I had a mild fever, flu, sore throat and swelling at injection site which is at my buttock area *sigh. I hardly sit properly and thank you to husband who always laugh at me for having too many issues at that area since I got pregnant. I had constipation and sometimes diarrhea and few other embarrassing affliction at that area.


I googled why should I received this shot during pregnancy, apparently, it helps to prevent tetanus to me and my baby. I understand from my doctor that before I deliver my baby, I should get my second shot. Now that I'm mentally prepared, I hope I'm not as weak as I am now *sigh.




Being pregnant is so challenging yet so fun. I have so many reasons to tell my husband that I can't do many things that I usually do like walking fast, so he will walk slowly with me despite his long leg is usually 2 to 3 steps ahead of me. Thank you husband for being considerate although you laughed at my swollen injection area :)


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

18 June 2014

Farrell Iskander aqiqah ceremony


Muhammad Farrell Iskander is my newborn nephew.

Recently, we had his Aqiqa ceremony at home. He was being a good boy during the entire event. Mak Long prays Farrell will always be a good boy :) ameen, insyaAllah.

Farrell Iskander's throne.
 
Farrell Iskander and his Papa & Mama during the 'cukur jambul/cukur rambut' ceremony. He went bald after the event.
 
Farrell Iskander in his cute 'baju melayu' sleeps like a prince in his throne :)


Farrell Iskander with Mak Long.

Oh, I miss this little man so much. See my tummy, there's Farrell's cousin inside, teheee.


Haha, sorry, I don't have anything much to say. Anyway, Aqiqa is one of the Islamic ceremony to celebrate the newborn baby in Islam. You can sacrifice animal(s) and cook it and distribute it to others and also totally remove the baby's hair. The true intention of the event is to show one's gratefulness to Allah.


I can't wait to organise my own baby aqiqah event :))


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

17 June 2014

Arab girls gathering


Note: Before anyone read and make further assumption, let me emphasize that the title is not related to any Arab girls nor do we claim we look like one :)



Few weeks ago, I received a Whatsapp message from one of my sweetheart from Arab class who then was asking whether or not I'm interested to join her attending Being Me (Muslimah conference) that held on 14th June 2014. Man, she souldn't ask me and should have just buy the ticket instead *sigh. I wouldn't say NO. I love attending Ilm event but eversince I got pregnant I have to minimize the activity and choose one that is not conducted at night. So, I said yes and looking forward for the event.


I stopped Arab class during my first trimester because I had a very bad morning sickness and among it - easily felt tired and sleepy. So, I haven't seen the Arab girls for few month already. I miss them so much. And the opportunity given by Allah to see them again I'm ,so grateful.


Here we are :)






Believe me, I'm the 'youngest' among all :P hahaaa, of course I'm the oldest, they are all so young and pretty and already exposed to love Islam at the very young age. I wish I could turn back time and attend more Ilm event to increase my deen.

InsyaAllah I will share in my blog what I gained during the conference. According to one of the speaker, he said, you gain nothing if you don't do anything with the knowledge you just gained.


P/s: You won't be able to see my tummy because I'm so petite *sigh. People wouldn't know that I'm pregnant if I don't tell. They will just thought that I have a puffy tummy.


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.

15 June 2014

Happy Father's Day


My father was a tough fierce man when I was a kid and I never imagine I will see him cry, I thought I will never able to see it. I was wrong.

The first time he cried was when my grandfather passed away.
And the second time, it was me who made him cried. I still remember the event. I was crying and begging my parents for something and my father couldn't bear to see me crying so hard, he dropped his tears. How could I? You know a man will cry for you when he loves you so much? Yes, my father does love me so much.

And I love him too. Happy Father's Day Ayah.


Ayah is a good advisor. Especially when it comes about relationship and marriage. He gives advise based on man's perspective, so I always listen to him and learn from it.

Ladies, remember, the only man who will never hurt you is your Father. He just want the best for you.

Btw, Happy Father's Day to my husband too, who is a future father-to-be, InsyaAllah :) and my father-in-law and my brother and my brother-in-law too :D


Till then, bye.
Love, emy.